Wang P'o said:" As the saying goes: Your parents take care of the first marriage, you take care of the second. What is there to be afraid of? The mourning period is almost over. I advise you. P'an Chin-lien to invite some monks to your house on the hundredth day of Ta-lang's death to hold a Buddhist ceremony and then burn his memorial tablet. After that, Lord Hsi-men should take you to his home in a sedan chair, and everything will be done. What do you think of that?"